tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post4075305977541546961..comments2023-10-23T20:01:19.960+10:30Comments on Deeper Still: Guest Post: Early Pregnancy LossLarissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11203889629710685292noreply@blogger.comBlogger81125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-51270517962420394452023-10-23T20:01:19.960+10:302023-10-23T20:01:19.960+10:30I got pregnant at the age of 48! After years of ma...I got pregnant at the age of 48! After years of marriage without a child. God has proven himself by using Dr Nogokpo healing shrine to get me get pregnant after 12 years of trying and now my enemies have been mocked. No matter how long that you have waited, Your miracle is next and it will happen this year! Claim it.I recommend everyone I know struggling with infertility to Dr Nogokpo healing shrine!i.via email: ( nogokposh@gmail.com ) or Whats-app . + 233 24 095 7817<br />Lucy Guzmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17337064562090777674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-40773099566097854652023-03-01T10:50:56.601+10:302023-03-01T10:50:56.601+10:30I did 2 digital pregnancy tests a week ago and got...I did 2 digital pregnancy tests a week ago and got 2 positives. Yesterday I woke up and was bleeding heavily. I went to a&e. I did a urine sample and was reassured I was still pregnant and it will be fine. I got referred to the early pregnancy unit this morning. I would have been 4.5 weeks. The urine sample was negative and the vaginal scan showed no pregnancy. They took my blood as I had had 3 postive tests. I got a call back today with the blood results that I'm not pregnant. Just feel so crushed and know my partner is hurting and doesn't know what to do or sayMcGowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14735853652666276093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-49947055337425769792021-10-21T14:23:23.141+10:302021-10-21T14:23:23.141+10:30Have you are fed up with all the empty promises an...Have you are fed up with all the empty promises and expensive treatments, that haven’t reduce the risk of miscarriages and other complications.after years of trying to conceive and a failed IVF and a failed FET And if you also suffer from ovarian cysts, uterine fibroid, tubal obstruction, endometriosis or lazy ovaries or if your male partner has low sperm count or sperm motility disorders, then Native Iya Hindi herbal medicine will help you treat most of these infertility related conditions while restoring your energy and vitality and giving you the healthy baby you’ve dreamed of for so long. course i have tried it and it worked out for now am pregnant with my baby with just two weeks of contacting him, after 4 years of us trying to conceive. Native Iya Hindi herbal medicine with your herbs you have brought life into our marriage, am very grateful to you.contact him on. hindinative@yahoo.com . Or Whats-pp +1 (914) 530‑9510<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02165233208334594542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-23533852956891328332021-02-02T01:22:08.114+10:302021-02-02T01:22:08.114+10:30I’m scared too holly. Just happened to me. I know ...I’m scared too holly. Just happened to me. I know all this has been some time ago for you but hope your doing ok xMissingmyangelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07737807777363654339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-77675326772103182872021-02-02T01:19:48.374+10:302021-02-02T01:19:48.374+10:30I lost my baby at 10 weeks. I am a 41 year old wo...I lost my baby at 10 weeks. I am a 41 year old woman with lupus and married nearly five years to the love of my life. We were close to giving up on having a baby until the one night after feeling quesy for few days I took a test. Two pink lines we were in shock and so excited. Our world felt complete. We had moved intolerable house this year and I felt we were so lucky to have this blessing. The first nine weeks were so good and no dramas. Had sickness but welcomed it as sign baby growing. Then brown spotting started. Worried but read can be normal so went to a and e. Spotting got heavier but scan showed sac and something there. They couldn’t see heartbeat but said maybe too early and dates wrong. So went home with hope. Bleeding still progressed and more trips to a and e over week with no definitive answer. Finally week later scan done and was told missed miscarriage. I was so numb i kept thinking and hoping for a miracle. The next day I had to face a d &c to remove my baby. Home now with my husband who has been my rock. I am heartbroken and so sad and hope my baby was not in pain. The baby left my body on the birthday of my grandmother who had just died that year. I hope she is looking after my little one. I feel scared to ever try again and fear if my husband wants to could ruin our marriage. I just feel it’s too much and I loved this baby. My heart goes out to anyone that loses a child. Missingmyangelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07737807777363654339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-78740049689932534972019-04-11T02:14:06.669+09:302019-04-11T02:14:06.669+09:30I lost my baby a week ago today at 5 weeks. I felt...I lost my baby a week ago today at 5 weeks. I felt the same as you. Like My pain, hurt and crying wasn't justified because there was no "baby". My husband and I had been trying for 6 months, and now I'm afraid of it happening again. My baby's due date would have been December 6th. Holly G. Nicothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05756948246878473298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-26052568051796371482019-04-01T14:41:57.961+10:302019-04-01T14:41:57.961+10:30I lost my baby yesterday. I was 5 weeks pregnant a...I lost my baby yesterday. I was 5 weeks pregnant and I couldn’t feel more identified with this story. Thank you for sharing it. Mirihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05043307607526674664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-60315527858300947772019-03-07T09:20:16.337+10:302019-03-07T09:20:16.337+10:30Thank you so much for this post. This is one of th...Thank you so much for this post. This is one of the most applicable posts to my miscarriage that I have found. I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks as well (I would be 11 weeks into my pregnancy now, if the miscarriage had never happened). It was my first pregnancy, and I have been so heart broken since. The pregnancy itself was a bit of a surprise, but we weren't really preventing it either. I knew about the pregnancy for 2 weeks, and although I was terrified, I had already started looking for baby furniture, maternity close, how to announce on social media, etc. I had gone on a trip to visit my family and attend my sister's baby shower when I started spotting. I went to the emerg, where the ultrasound still showed an early pregnancy but my hcg levels were lower than normal. As I was flying home the next day, there wasn't really anything I could do but to wait and see. On the plane home, I started to miscarry. It was so painful and horrible. When my husband picked me up from the airport, I was a sobbing mess that could barely walk because of the pain. We went straight to the hospital, and I was so lucky to have an amazing and caring gynecologist. She removed the intact gestational sac during my pelvic exam, and offered to let me see. I did take a look, and while that image still haunts me, I'm glad I was able to at least get one last look at my baby. <br /><br />I have been so lucky to have a supporting husband who works in the funeral industry, so he truly understands my grief and has been so amazing. What has been really difficult is the fact that my brother in law and his wife are expecting a child as well, and our due dates were 2 weeks apart. They made their pregnancy announcement on facebook last week, and I totally crumbled - just sobbed for hours as my husband held me. I hate that I can't feel happy for them. I even get horrible thoughts wishing that they would have a miscarriage as well, just so they could understand how horrible this has been. I was so hurt that they posted a happy pregnancy announcement (with what seemed like no regard as to what my husband and I are going through), while I was completely broken.<br /><br />I also find myself almost being jealous of people who had still births instead of miscarriages, as crazy as that sounds. At least with a still birth, people knew you were pregnant and can understand your grief. I miscarried so early that I barely got to tell anyone I was pregnant at all. I had refrained from telling my family, because I didn't want to take the light away from my sister's baby shower. They only got to find out after I had started spotting, and had to ask them to drive me to the hospital. I don't mean to minimize anyone's pain from a still birth; I just wish more people could know about my situation and reach out in support, as I am a very private person and have troubles reaching out myself. <br /><br />The whole miscarriage experience was extremely traumatizing. I shivered uncontrollably (even though I wasn't cold) for days afterwards. I was lucky enough to have an understanding manager at work, who gave me days off to cope. I can't imagine what it would be like for any woman who has to go back to work right away. <br /><br />Thank you to everyone who posted their stories in the comments. It is so nice to know that I am not alone, and that my grief is justified. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03169655446260087384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-56297409199742477552019-02-17T08:30:54.288+10:302019-02-17T08:30:54.288+10:30Thank you so much for this i lost one baby to a fo...Thank you so much for this i lost one baby to a forced abortion in 2014 at 8 weeks and then lost my other baby may of 2017 at 9 weeks my husband and i got to see the baby but there wasn't a heartbeat i went through what id call labor since i do have a living son and know what that feels like i was devestated the baby was supposed to be born on my birthday i have never felt so much pain as the pain of knowing i have two babies sleeping with the stars i cry almost daily for both of them Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08078182532976632112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-22648345170660103692019-02-13T15:41:54.743+10:302019-02-13T15:41:54.743+10:30I am currently going through a miscarriage. A preg...I am currently going through a miscarriage. A pregnancy I didn’t even know about. I’m about 4-5 weeks and I have no idea how I feel. I don’t know how to talk about it. I’ve had many cousins and my sister all have miscarriages with their first pregnancies. But they knew about them. I’m questioned if I’m sure that’s it. Could it be something else. And all I can think is it’s completely something I’ve never experienced. I just know. Thank you for your post, it really helps me put into words what I think. Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17875497896638274853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-21170287984083232852019-01-11T11:57:02.769+10:302019-01-11T11:57:02.769+10:30Sharing our stories is so helpful, thank you stron...Sharing our stories is so helpful, thank you strong women who read and stumble upon this post. I lost angel baby #4, Odin would be their name. 12/26 my tests showed positive. Two days later my Christmas baby began to pass through my life like it never happened. Life just continued on and I was forced to behave like nothing happened. McNight / Read Family Fusionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12369069407403342915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-77549764057226578102019-01-06T06:32:38.925+10:302019-01-06T06:32:38.925+10:30Thank you for your story. I always keep mine to my...Thank you for your story. I always keep mine to myself. It gets so lonely sometimes. I was probably 3 months along. I hadn't been to the doctor yet. I didnt have insurance. I remember it all. It was about 5 years ago, but it feels like it was yesterday. I remember how excited I was when I found out. I remember picking out names. Either Matthew Aidyn or Mariah Ashalyn. I remember being so happy that nothing could bring me down. My mom bought the first onesie. The only one ever bought. I have it in a picture frame. I like to take it out from time to time when there pain gets to be too much. I still remember how crushed I was when I found out I was no longer pregnant. I tried to stay strong but for the first month I randomly broke down and cried every single day. And then one day, I told myself that I needed to be strong. So I stopped letting people see me cry. I put on a smile and acted like I was ok. The sad part is that everybody fell for it. Everybody thought that I was ok. Everybody pretended like it never even happened. Everybody else forgot about the child that I still greive today. And it sucks because I feel so alone. Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06791714671677271392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-45323747145292406962018-10-30T03:55:32.951+10:302018-10-30T03:55:32.951+10:30Thank you so much for sharing this! I started a bl...Thank you so much for sharing this! I started a blog when I was having pregnancy issues, and I ended up losing my baby at 20 weeks pregnant. My due date is approaching on December 1st and I will continue to blog my story, its the best therapy. People tell me they are sorry to ask about my medical situation, but I love to talk about my baby. I too have had some very hurtful things said to be in the months after I lost my baby boy, but I really think that people have no idea what we are going through. They do not realize that some of their input is not even necessary. Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00766262628559298342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-1909044180476852612018-09-09T11:22:19.503+09:302018-09-09T11:22:19.503+09:30Beautiful poem and uttertly painful. I am so very,...Beautiful poem and uttertly painful. I am so very, very sorry for your excruciating loss. I felt so alone when I was experiencing my miscarriage, please know you are not alone in this. My heart breaks for you and I hope the Lord brings you peace through it all. My thoughts are with you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00427938263864427721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-15238238743771992142018-09-09T11:19:23.982+09:302018-09-09T11:19:23.982+09:30Dear friend, this article has pierced my heart and...Dear friend, this article has pierced my heart and soul to the very core. I am so very sorry for your devastating loss. I too found out I was pregnant with my second baby at four weeks and I lost my sweet little one at six weeks. This coming week I should have been twelve weeks along. It's been very difficult with each week in knowing what I should be experiencing when I have already experienced one previous healthy pregnancy. With each coming week it's like being stabbed in the heart all over again. The worst part is a few weeks before I found out I was expecting my brother and sister in law announced they were expecting their second child. Now that's all fine and great except that she has said for the past two years and adamantly, that she did not want any more kids. And yet, they did nothing to prevent, clearly. Also, the weekend they announced to my parents, they were on a trip together and she decided to celebrate with a beer. I thought, how could she, how selfish. I've had a very difficult time accepting it and being happy for them. I don't even want to be around them, I don't want to talk to them, I dont even want to see them. I don't even think it's jealousy, but disrespect and bitterness for them taking it for granted so much. Especially since I've taken extra care to eat healthy, consume very little if any caffeine and I always, always take a prenatal vitamin. I don't know anyone who I'm very close to who has experienced a miscarriage. My family doesn't understand. My other brother and his wife had a scare as well but my nephew was born strong and healthy. My mother in law had a stillborn baby and I can relate to you how it feels like we're feeling sorry for ourselves or that it feels less significant because our babies didn't even have a little heartbeat yet. I haven't talked with her about it yet but I know she understands. Not a day goes by that I don't think about that sweet little baby. That sweet little baby that I prayed for immediately after seeing two positive strips. Every night, as I prayed over my little girl, I also prayed over my little growing pea and asked for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby. Every night. And when I started bleeding, I still prayed. I know there's a reason God took my special little baby, my second baby. I don't know what that reason is but I hope to find out someday. In the meantime I pray every night for another little miracle. Certainly not to replace my second one but to remind me of how much joy there is in being pregnant, how incredibly amazing it is to create a life, how simple and yet complex it all is, how thankful I am to be a mother and how very much I love my babies. Both of them. And as the days go by and the dreadful month of March looms ahead, I wonder who this baby was going to be and if it was a boy or girl;Oh how I wish I knew. I wish I had an ultrasound photo of my second baby, something to hold on to. <br />Dear friend, your little one will never be forgotten and I pray for any woman who reads this article for peace in a difficult situation, understanding and trust that the Lord has your beautiful baby in his arms where he or she will forever be held and loved and taken care of. <br />Thank you Larissa for this article, one of many, that I've read and hoped for. It hits so close to my heart. God bless you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00427938263864427721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-28100965310222301282018-09-09T11:06:03.306+09:302018-09-09T11:06:03.306+09:30This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00427938263864427721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-64650658676622656142018-09-09T04:41:13.949+09:302018-09-09T04:41:13.949+09:30I am miscarrying right now as I type this. I would...I am miscarrying right now as I type this. I would be 10 weeks and 4 days today. My baby stopped growing at 8 weeks and had no heart beat on the ultrasound. Tomorrow is my birthday...I'll be cramping and feel horrible as I do today. So I wrote this poem the night I found out. :<br />Faith<br />I wanted to be your mother so bad,<br />Sing a song to the baby I didn't get to have<br />Keep faith they say<br />The pain will go away<br />No rhyme or reason<br />For a heart to stop beating<br />A laughter I don't get to hear<br />Yet it's ringing in my ears<br />A sweet child my arms won't get to hold<br />A smiling face I won't get to know<br />Why this happens, God I'll never know<br />I don't understand why it ended this way<br />If it's God's plan, what am I to say<br />To give me a child<br />Just to take it away<br />What is Faith<br />Until we meet in another place<br />I will love you and<br />My heart will break<br />S.M.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04142667327369009046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-61459366576492332562018-08-10T14:37:58.984+09:302018-08-10T14:37:58.984+09:30Thank you so much for sharing your story. I also e...Thank you so much for sharing your story. I also experienced a pregnancy loss at 6 weeks. I've felt terrible and I cry in private to not make people uncomfortable since it's now been a month since I lost my baby. I didn't think I had the right to say I lost a baby, because it was just a little peanut. So I thank you. Your story has eased my pain tonight.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08556506157106216072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-37451444683552803812018-08-01T05:24:47.625+09:302018-08-01T05:24:47.625+09:30I recently miscarried at 6 weeks as well, and this...I recently miscarried at 6 weeks as well, and this was exactly what I needed to read! I’m having those feelings of guilt and also the grief of seeing others lose babies that were further along than me. I am also growing tired of people telling me that it wasn’t even an actual baby yet—although I know it comes from a good place of wanting me to feel less grief about it. Not to mention the constant state of people asking me “When are you going to get pregnant?” And “are you pregnant yet?” where I feel sadness and anger and awkwardly have to pretend like I was never pregnant in the first place to avoid the conversation of miscarriage because I’m afraid to make the person uncomfortable. I wish I could be more open about my miscarriage—not for the sympathy...but so people would understand what I am going through and would not ask questions like that. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15134771162200245897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-62236539856835460362018-06-01T04:16:16.612+09:302018-06-01T04:16:16.612+09:30Me and my husband have been trying for a baby for ...Me and my husband have been trying for a baby for 3 years and last week found out we were pregnant. We were over the moon and planning things in put head. Today only a week later we have lost our baby. I was 6 and a half weeks. The scan showed my womb was empty. I am utterly heartbroken. I feel empty and lost. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08164223226327447517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-25052793833341123252018-05-05T14:21:26.600+09:302018-05-05T14:21:26.600+09:30Lost another angel too soon today. Much love to al...Lost another angel too soon today. Much love to all my sisters who feel the loss. I have a beautiful daughter, age 20. I had her before I married the man of my dreams. In the last 10 years we have lost 3 babies before the end of the first trimester. Lucas, Melody, and today Nolan. This was our last try so mourning the loss of a family that will never be too. McNight / Read Family Fusionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12369069407403342915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-83410299730734718942018-04-20T11:04:49.984+09:302018-04-20T11:04:49.984+09:30Thank you. I just lost my sweet pea at 6 weeks. An...Thank you. I just lost my sweet pea at 6 weeks. And I too feel so empty but too guilty to mourn. So many others have had more of a struggle than me. It's such a struggle to want to share my story with the world, but most don't understand and do pass it off as just an early pregnancy loss, not the loss of a child. Thank you for writing the words that I feel. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08324448825636197486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-47997006583001973302018-03-13T06:09:50.418+10:302018-03-13T06:09:50.418+10:30Wow, reading this post is like reading my own conf...Wow, reading this post is like reading my own confused thoughts and emotions transcribed for me. I just recently had a 6 week miscarriage, and the heart break is so real and crippling. I find so much comfort in your words, thank you for this beautiful post that continues to touch hearts 4 years later. Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06040052976542812702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-86276034490757655392018-03-04T16:56:04.128+10:302018-03-04T16:56:04.128+10:30I just got home from delivering a 17 week old baby...I just got home from delivering a 17 week old baby that had died a few days before. I am overcome with grief. I experienced a miscarriage at 7 weeks in 2010 and have since had 3 more children (4 now ) and already had 5 to start with, but no one ever validated my miscarriage in 2010 but chalked it up to an early pregnancy loss. I feel like I am working through that along with my 17 week old loss. No one is validating her, either, since she is still considered a miscarriage. My heart is breaking. My milk is starting to come in and I just want to hold my baby. How do people make it through this?? I just want my baby and for people to acknowledge that I had a baby. Her name is Serena Faith. And now I want to name my 1st miscarriage too. Thank you for writing this years ago...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3015792197840009780.post-41675598681077180672018-02-12T01:27:46.396+10:302018-02-12T01:27:46.396+10:30Thank you for this. I to have lost a baby at 4 wee...Thank you for this. I to have lost a baby at 4 weeks I only have two little lines and then a couple days later I had what I thought was my period but it was heavier and more painful than my other ones I knew then that I had indeed been preg and I had lost it. I still haven't grieved as I still wonder if it was real or if I was just seeing things. But I know I have a baby in heaven and I know one day I will see them again.FallenAngelABhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08226526490595460890noreply@blogger.com